need to hear.
I'm sure that more than one or a small fibs like to hear that nurture self-esteem, phrases such as "these super skinny," you look younger, "of course I noticed your haircut! and you is so cute! "there are other sentences completely false, where is" no room at the bottom "or" sign this contract, no hidden charges. "
Not that this in favor of lies, but being completely honest if I need them. There are lies that can assist in processes, such as a very difficult time in one's life, perhaps a hug along with the encouraging phrase, "all will be okay "is not helpful? And is it true? Maybe not, maybe the situation is so bad that nothing will do well. So I think that there are times where what is true or not is sent flying and the only rule that matters is what the other person needs to hear.
Living lies is not the issue, but I stress once again that there are lies necessary to start building something, like Father Christmas and children's first Christmas as a lie starts the magic and fantasy that children have at Christmas, even the mouse of the teeth that leaves you a nickel for your teeth, the mere idea of \u200b\u200bpaying to see the pain in your tooth encouraged to spend stage and even excited for the loss!
I'm starting a new stage umpteenth time, I dove back in search of another race, this time I chose a career that represents a major challenge ... which forced me to hide my shyness and improve my accent in English, look for one of my best friends for support, looking for a lie that I encouraged her to go, a lie that was transformed into reality, that's me, threw me the pool without seeing whether or not water, and if not because I think, but never let my dive is in vain. The issue is that it can be a lie to tell me that if I can be successful in this new career I decided. But it may be a lie today and tomorrow actually, because I trust in my ability to sleep well and I am sure that my success will be a reality tomorrow.
"If can! "is not true, nor is it a lie, but if you give hope still not sure of the outcome. It is an untruth, nor is it an if-lying, is just one phrase of confidence.
The bad thing is that this friend does not believe the lies that become truths, and so I did know ... when I said "I lied, not think you can with this career I freeze the world. Perhaps encouraging phrases are a way to create my own gasoline, and start the engine. Not depend on them, when my petrol sentimental look does not work because solar energy ... total, there are more fuel. but ... would have liked to hear her lie, and turn that lies today in the hope of tomorrow and more, at a demonstrated reality after tomorrow.
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